I have had some serious issues with my friends lately. I am a person that worries, says yes when I mean no, and let people's emotions persuade me into doing things I do not want to do. Not serious things of course but things like going out when I should stay home, spending money when I really do not have any, and basically my some of my friends feel as if I should pay more attention to them then I do my family.
Let me start by saying NO ONE is as important as my family no matter what the occasion. I do not care how long it has been planned and I knew about it. In trying to do the right thing my friends decide that they will guilt me into doing what they want.
Guess what....not anymore..these past few weeks I have managed to lose a few friends and I am perfectly fine with that and I have a feeling that I am fixing to lose a few more and I am actually gleefully excited about that as well.
My goals are to buy land and build a house. Give my children everything they want, and save for our future. I can not do that if I am constantly spending money on other people. My real friends can accept the new friendship terms or find a different friend to push around.
These past two days in making all these decisions I have never been happier.
Things are about to change.
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